i do trust people. but sometimes there's a limit to trust. and limit on how far you are willing to take a friendship. and what you are willing to do for a friendship.
this latin thing was so sad...but kinda enlightened me on a particular situation.
friends are important, friendship is important, standin up for who and what you believe in is important.
i've decided, with the half-term break to turn over a new leaf with this situation. if i like you and consider you as a friend i will talk to you, i will talk to you out of mi own free will, if i don't like you then don't expect me to talk to you, to tell you all about mi life or whatever.
for me friendship is based on trust and also support, if you can't trust some one with the basic things in your life then how can you build a proper, worthwhile friendship? im not sayin that you have to be able to tell everyone of your friends all about your life, but the things that you value and the things that you care about, the things that make you, you, they should know about them, or at least have an idea.
that way they will be able to support you through difficult times.
im lucky i have three cousins all a round the same age as me. we are all really good friends and do tonnes of stuff together. it is easy because they know pretty much everythin about me, we practically live together. but that is a different type of friendship.
anywayz wat i am tryin to say is that friendsip is very inportant to me, (even if i do seem to get picked on by certain friends).
so as adam puts it, it is time to turn over a new leaf, just because one of mi friends doesn't like another, doesn't mean they are goin to influence mi opinion.
x.

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